🌸 How I Turned Heartbreak Into Energy (and Productivity)
[Opening / Hook]
“I fell in love, and he left.
The longing almost destroyed me…
But instead of breaking, I discovered how to turn love into my greatest source of energy.”
With that energy, I woke up before 4am everyday, transformed my body, invested with clarity,
and last week — I created 5 new videos.
Now I’m challenging myself to make one video every single day.
🔹 Stage 1 — Longing
Longing felt like emptiness.
I wanted to reach out, to hold on, to not lose the connection.
But he is rational.
He replied to my email with encouragement — but not with love.
Still, I couldn’t help but miss him.
I wanted to message him. Instead, I sent an email.
And then I found myself checking again and again,
wondering when he would reply.
That expectation caused energy leakage.
So I decided to cut contact,
even though I missed him every single day.
🔹 Stage 2 — Appreciation
At first, it was hard to resist the temptation to reach out.
But then something shifted.
I realized — I didn’t need to focus on what I couldn’t have.
I could appreciate what I had already received:
his words that saw my inner light,
the mirror he gave me,
the spark that woke me up,
the rare true love that existed between us.
I whispered to myself: “How lucky I am to have felt this at all.”
That one thought shifted me
from scarcity into abundance.
🔹 Stage 3 — Energy
That shift was only possible because of how I see the world.
Most people see love only as emotion — joy, pain, longing.
But I know emotions are energy in motion.
And I am sensitive to energy.
I see love through the energy lens.
To me, love is energy.
It has the power to destroy someone… or to transform them.
And energy can always be directed, recycled, transformed —
if you use appreciation to shift your state of mind into abundance.
Once I switched into abundance,
I became capable of using the greatest energy of all.
🔹 Stage 4 — Becoming
I discovered that love is not possession.
It is a state I can choose to stay in.
I realized that loving others brings me more energy than waiting to be loved.
So I began to expand my love —
to life, to people, to the world —
knowing that giving multiplies energy.
And the more I noticed this truth,
the more appreciation I had for him.
And the more energy I could draw from this love.
Then I began to channel it:
into clarity, discipline, and creation.
It made me stronger, clearer, freer.
Through appreciation, my longing became energy.
Through energy, I am becoming the woman I want to be
🌸 Why Appreciation Is the Key to Transforming Energy
Appreciation shifts the mindset from scarcity to abundance.
Most people don’t realize this:
the state of mind you choose — scarcity or abundance — determines whether love drains you or fuels you.
1. Scarcity leaks energy
Scarcity whispers: “I don’t have enough. I need more. Something is missing.”
This thought creates craving, waiting, comparison.
It leaks energy outward, leaving you empty.
2. Abundance multiplies energy
Abundance says: “I already received. I already have. I am full.”
This thought creates gratitude, relaxation, creativity.
It circulates energy inward, making you stronger.
3. Energy follows perception
If you see lack, your energy shrinks.
If you see fullness, your energy expands.
Your body, emotions, and actions align with the story you choose.
4. Abundance unlocks transformation
Only from abundance can you:
- Appreciate instead of resent.
- Create instead of cling.
- Give instead of grasp.
- Love without possession.
🌹 Why I Could Do It
Brave to Love
For many years, I suppressed my feelings. This time, I chose to be brave — to release my emotions fully, even if it hurt.
I believe the most vulnerable is also the strongest — like water.
That courage turned vulnerability into strength.
Energy Built in Habits
You need energy to transform energy.
Months of waking early,weight training, walking 15,000 steps, writing daily, and patient investing built a strong vessel to hold love’s intense energy. That’s why I am strong enough to love deeply without outcome—
and strong enough to transform.
The Energy Lens
I don’t see love as just emotion or relationship. I see it as energy.
That lens allows me to notice it, contain it, circulate it inward, transform it, and use it as fuel.
Sensitivity and Guidance
I was not alone.
Life spoke to me through signs — a rainbow, cats crossing my path, a pen waiting to be picked up, an eagle soaring above.
My sensitivity allowed me to trust I was being guided.
Energy is best productivity leveage
With the energy of love, I wake up every day before 4. I push myself with heavier weights in the gym. I dropped my body fat from 28% to 20%. I challenge myself to create a video every single day. I gained over 50% YTD in my investments with clarity.
Energy is the real currency of life. Energy is the drive behind every form of productivity.
Energy is the ultimate leverage. Master energy, and time and money take care of themselves. Because the discipline, clarity, and creativity that come with energy make everything else effortless.